Flirting Via Text: 19 Tips51 Examples [Whatsapp, Tinder]
What’s the best way to flirt via Whatsapp and other means of texting? What are e.g. the best Tinder chat tips? What do you send to someone you like? How do you start a Whatsapp conversation? Here you will find the best tips, opening lines and flirt phrases for him and her via text .
You may be asking yourself: How do you start a chat conversation? Why is my Tinder match going away? Why is my match not responding? In this article, let’s look at the right tips including examples of flirting via SMS or Whatsapp, for example. In short, any text medium with which you send online messages.
Tip 1 – Use your charms especially offline and use these 59+ tips
For starters, I’d like to direct you to these 59+ Crucial Ways to Flirt Offline . Why? It is best to show your true charms offline , after which you can use Whatsapp and other chat forms as a supplement .
You can start the first conversation, make a small joke or arrange a date via chat, but do not use the chat as a primary means to flirt and get to know each other.
You prefer to use the chat as little as possible. Be brave for once and do not hide behind a screen , but ask the other person offline. Read here how to ask someone out and get a guaranteed date. Now it is much easier to continue flirting via Whatsapp.
Flirting is a feeling, and that feeling can really only be experienced when two people are near each other offline. Moreover, every sentence can be interpreted in a different or incorrect way via Whatsapp. Really use it as a bonus flirtation.
Tip 2 – Don’t be too ‘funny’ with your messages if you don’t know each other well yet
“I’m going to ask you to be my sidekick on a bank heist because I need someone to seduce the guards. Then we’re going to build a time machine so you can go back in time because you could be a good 50s housewife. . “
Don’t worry, you’ll see plenty of these ‘funny’ example phrases later in this article . Only use them after you have already shown your real character well.
Because really … who is really so ‘funny’, ‘original’ and ‘imaginative’? Probably that’s not the case for you. And that’s okay either! Just be your ‘boring’ self. That is 100 times more attractive and easier for yourself and for others.
If you act so funny via Whatsapp when you don’t know each other very well yet, there are four problems:
- A) The other feels pressured to also be funny, and that takes a lot of energy for the other because the other cannot be themselves.
- B) This takes a lot of energy for you because you are not yourself.
- C) Sooner or later you fall through the basket and it becomes clear that your real self is not constantly thinking up these kinds of ‘funny’ things.
- D) You show that you hide your feelings behind all those jokes and teasing. The other person (also) just wants to hear vulnerable, sweet things from you, such as: ‘You are beautiful. I like to hang out with you. ‘
Tip 3 – Do not use ‘well thought out’ tricks but write authentically as yourself
Of course we understand that you tend to constantly think about ‘jokes, tips, tricks and techniques’ when Whatsapping. However, the truth is, anyone can naturally ‘pick up’, but the problem is usually that you don’t give yourself enough value. When you know what you are worth about yourself – and that you don’t need the other person – ‘decorating well’ comes naturally.